MOTHER BLESSING, otherwise known as a Blessingway - (THE ALTERNATIVE BABY SHOWER)
In almost all cultures, traditionally, women have gathered together before the birth of a baby to wish the mother well. A Mother Blessing, (or Blessingway) is a celebration of the pregnant mother-to-be and her transition from maiden to mother.
As opposed to the more traditional Baby Shower, a Mother Blessing is all about the mother-to-be. They are a chance for the women close to the mother-to-be to honour, support and nurture her, with a sense of long-lost ceremony. A Mother Blessing is seen as a rite of passage and focuses on providing the Mum-to-be with emotional, mental and spiritual support, encouragement and celebration.
Even though traditionally Mother Blessings are women-only events, it’s your gathering and you can invite who you wish! They can be intimate with just a few close girlfriends and family, or they can be a larger celebration. Whatever you choose to do, the focus is on nurturing you!
Each ceremony is different...but YOURS COULD INCLUDE:
2 hours attendance from me as your officiary
Aromatherapy hand massage and foot bathing
Reading of poems/prose
Birthing necklace: A necklace/bracelet is made for the Mother-to-be to wear during labour (each person brings two beads)
Decorating prayer flags with positive affirmations and images
Storytelling - positive birth stories
Releasing of fears / tearing or burning of paper
Joining ceremony (tying of coloured string around wrists)
And any other offerings that your guests would like to give you!
There are many other things to include or try out and there is something for everyone. For example:
Candle offering - each woman brings a candle to light at the ceremony and again when the Mother-to-be goes into labour
Chanting session with live musicians
Henna decoration for your baby bump/hands/feet
Gift ideas for a Mother Blessing
Where baby shower gifts are focused on the baby, gift ideas for a Mother Blessing are for you! Focusing on assisting, celebrating and reducing any stress or anxiety you might have.
a voucher for a massage, beauty or wellbeing treatment
a soothing body balm, massage oil, foot or hand cream
a pregnancy/birth relaxation CD or book
a wheat bag / heat pack or lavender eye pillow
labour and birth support items, like a bolster, blanket, yoga ball
a nappy washing service!
help with the housework
help with the cooking
an offer to cuddle/watch the baby whilst the new Mum (and Dad) get some rest
If you would like help with planning and holding a Mother Blessing Ceremony for yourself or someone else, email me at email@example.com .